Showing posts with label Liverpool. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Liverpool. Show all posts

Thursday, October 2, 2014

Fashion War: London vs. Liverpool

It's time we talked about fashion, yes?


I've now been to all four of the fashion capitals of the world: London, Paris, Milan and Liverpool. Wait. No. Liverpool is not New York. Darn. I thought I had "arrived."  Oh well. I guess New York will continue floating around in my dreams for now. Wait for me please, Manhattan. I'm coming.

I mention Liverpool because it plays a significant role in the UK fashion scene. Having visited London only a couple of short weeks after Liverpool, I couldn't help but notice some stark differences.

One city bragged impossibly high heels, tight skirts, red lips and hot-rolled hair. The other touted both a classy and mod vibe, even when casual. They've got it going on.
Can you guess which was which?
Sorry Liverpool. No disrespect, but London wins this one.

I'm not gonna lie. It took me a full day to pack for one night to London. I felt it necessary to try on half my wardrobe to get it just right. And I am a girl who likes options. Like, three per day. Unfortunately, Don was carrying all of our belongings in a back pack so I had to be smart about this. Once my clothes were chosen, there was no going back.

I am pleased to report that I was not embarrassed by my choices. I did, however, regret my footwear. Opting for fashion over comfort, I paid the price dearly with raw blisters and bruised toe bones by the middle of the first day.

What I learned about fashion from London was this: You can be comfortable and stylish at the same time. And I base this observation just on Londoners. Picking out the locals was easy due to hairstyle and clothing choices alone. Southern Brits are well put together.

As I hobbled around looking okay but in foot hell, envy turned my blood green as I watched women in high top runners (aka baseball boots) walk by comfortably and confidently having paired them with blouses tucked into fitted, just below the knee skirts. Add a high bun, French nails with subtle makeup and it was a heavenly recipe for casual fashion success.

The men knew their stuff too. With clean-shaven faces, short groomed hair and tailored trousers topped with shirts buttoned to the top, Armani himself would be proud.

Sure, denim made appearances on both men and women, but even then it spoke of chic rather than shabby. You know. When you see a pair of jeans and think: expensive. They were probably purchased at Harrods.

Yes, I also saw women in Manolo Blahniks, but they boasted exquisite elegance rather than tacky tart. Think Vogue vs. Sun girl.

Moral of the story? Don't try too hard, or at least don't look like you are trying too hard.
I'm not saying don't put effort into your look. A friend's daughter has been said to just open the dryer door and put on whatever sticks to her. Picture plaid skirts, floral shirts, striped scarves, and wool mismatched cartoon character socks all hanging on by static cling. While that may work for her, I don't recommend this approach for the average person. Being fashionable takes some thought. I'm just suggesting that what you wear advertises your personality and goals and if overdone, can achieve the opposite of your intentions. Success, seduction or slop - What are you aiming for?

Liverpool, I loved you. I really did. And I love the diversity of style in this country.
But if you ask me...
I'd look to London for inspiration and rock those high tops and shapely skirts with graceful style. Especially when shopping and touring the Tower of London.
Your feet will thank you.
Trust me on this. :)


Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Beth and the Beatles - The Perfect Union

Diabetes has wreaked havoc on my person as of late. From gastro paresis at its possible worst, to nerve pain disallowing sleep, to recurrent frozen shoulders, life has been challenging to say the least. I will not lie...I'm tired. Don is tired too, and I can't bear to watch this two way mirror. No matter who looks at who, what we see is fatigue. With that said, Don is an unwavering rock, faithfully holding me up through thick and thin.
He's not the only one keeping me going.
This past weekend, a group of our UK friends drove up to Liverpool to celebrate several birthdays. After a day of wandering the streets and getting a guided tour by Beth, a long-time-ago Liverpool local, we went for a lovely dinner and then found ourselves at the Cavern.

As I'm sure you know, Liverpool is the home of the Beatles, and the Cavern is where it all began. Typically I am not one to go clubbing, but this was one worth experiencing. As we wound down multiple flights of stone steps, I fought against my claustrophobia and tried to take it all in. Knowing this was the first club the Beatles ever played gave me the stronger push downward than the tightness in my chest pushing back to try to catapult me up and out.
A tribute band played the Beatles all night, taking requests. (As classic as the Beatles are, it's gotta get pretty old for them after months and months of this, no?)
After dancing to a Hard Day's Night, and I Wanna Hold Your Hand, plus many others, my legs needed a break. As I sat, I Saw Her Standing There started to pump through the speakers. At this point, something magical happened. My friend Beth caught the rhythm.
As she started dancing the Jitterbug, the first emotion to come over me was awe. I mean, she was really, really good. I haven't witnessed that much energy since watching Footloose a gazillion years ago.
Next came pure joy. The kind of joy that forced tears to stream down my face while my mouth was so turned upwards in a smile it hurt. I couldn't stop - crying or smiling. He adorable black dress swished and swirled as she twisted and turned and jumped and twirled. Next thing I knew, her husband Jason  joined her. This pushed me off the cliff of supreme happiness. To see the two of them in that moment privately together, for the whole world to see...it was just too much.
As I mentioned, life has been hard. But as I watched Beth I was thrust into 3:13 minutes of undiluted jubilation. It was freedom encountered through the infectious essence of free-spirited friends. Chained by medical tests, appointments, exhaustion and pain, it's a freedom that's been lacking within me as of late. That dance was a gift so pure, particularly since it was incognizant and unintentional, yet so open for the taking.
So with an indebted heart and tears in my eyes, I say thank you. Thanks to the Cavern for giving the Beatles a shot, to the Beatles for transforming the music scene on so many levels, and most importantly to Beth and Jason for dancing so spontaneously and uninhibited. Memories of that three minute break from life's hardships will carry me far.
Thanks again my dear friend Beth.
I Saw You Dancing There. ;)